How do I schedule an initial appointment?
The first step is usually a brief, complimentary phone consultation. You can email, text or call me. Look under contact for information.
How long does therapy usually last?
That depends entirely on your goals! Some clients find clarity in a few months, while others work with me for a year or more to fully process deeper trauma. Our work together is always guided by your evolving goals, not a fixed timeline.
What does "being in charge" actually look like in the therapy room?
It means you can tell me, "I don't want to talk about that today," and I will respect it immediately. It means we check in often about what's working and what isn't. You have the right to steer, pause, or even change direction entirely.
I'm nervous about discussing trauma. Will I be forced to talk about it?
Absolutely not. Your safety and pacing are paramount. We will never move faster than you are ready to go. We focus first on stabilization, building resources, and establishing trust. You are in charge, and we only approach the material that feels manageable for you.
What is EMDR?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy that helps your brain "unstick" painful or traumatic memories. By using gentle side-to-side eye movements (or other rhythmic stimulation), it helps your brain fully process the memory so that it no longer causes intense emotional distress in the present. It moves the memory from being a raw wound to something you can look back on without feeling overwhelmed.
Is virtual counseling different than in-person counseling?
Not by much! I have done both and both settings are effective. The perks of virtual is you can have therapy without driving across town, and wear comfy clothes!
I have done therapy before. Will counseling again help me?
Yes, absolutely. It is very common for people to engage in counseling at different points in their lives.
New Life Stages, New Challenges: The issues you are facing now may be different from the ones you addressed before. You may also be ready to explore deeper material or use new techniques.
The Power of the Therapeutic Relationship: Even if you discussed similar topics, a different counselor and therapeutic approach can offer fresh perspectives, deeper insights, and a unique healing experience. Every counseling relationship is distinct and can lead to new growth.
How do I know therapy is right for me?
It's natural to wonder if now is the right time. Therapy is likely a good fit if you:
- Are feeling stuck: You keep repeating patterns that you know aren't working for you.
- Are struggling with your emotions: You feel overwhelmed, constantly stressed, depressed, or anxious.
- Want better relationships: You are having difficulty connecting with others or maintaining healthy boundaries.
- Desire self-improvement: You are motivated to understand yourself better and make positive changes in your life.
There's no pressure! You are welcome to come in for an initial session to explore your needs and see if the process feels right.
How do I pay for counseling?
We aim to make counseling accessible for everyone. We accept the following payment options:
- Insurance: We are in-network with several major insurance providers. Please contact your insurance company directly to verify your mental health benefits, deductible, and co-pay/co-insurance responsibility.
- Self-Pay (Private Pay): You can choose to pay for sessions directly out of pocket. We accept credit cards and debit cards. We are happy to discuss our self-pay rate with you.
What is my first session like?
Your first session is a low-pressure opportunity for us to get to know each other.
- Intake and Paperwork: We'll start by reviewing any necessary forms and explaining our policies regarding confidentiality and scheduling.
- Exploring What's Going On: We'll spend the majority of the time talking about what brought you in, what your goals are, and the history of the current situation.
- Your Pace: We take it at your own pace. There is absolutely no pressure to share anything you aren't ready to discuss. This first session is the beginning of a safe and collaborative journey.
Do I have to talk about my trauma in detail?
No. We focus on reprocessing the beliefs and physical sensations you carry today, not recounting every graphic detail of the past. You don't have to relive it to release it.
Will I lose my "edge" or success if I stop being a perfectionist?
Actually, the opposite is true. Healing allows you to stop performing for survival and start living authentically, which prevents the burnout that eventually dulls your "edge."
Is virtual therapy as effective as in-person for EMDR?
Yes. Research shows that specialized tools for virtual EMDR are just as effective as in-person sessions, with the added benefit of being in your own safe, private environment.
How do I know if I have "trauma" or if I'm just stressed?
Trauma is often the quiet, long-term "wear and tear" of putting others' needs first. If you feel a constant sense of urgency or an inability to "turn off," you are likely managing a survival response.
Is this just another therapist telling me to "think positive"?
Definitely not. We avoid generic affirmations and focus on science-rooted tools like EMDR or CPT to actually change how your nervous system responds to stress.
Privacy and Your Records
Enhanced Confidentiality: We maintain a strict "firewall" for specialized substance use programs, ensuring your records receive the highest level of protection.
Reproductive Health Privacy: We guarantee protection from third-party disclosure for investigative purposes concerning reproductive health information.
AI Security & Digital Boundaries: While we utilize AI-assisted tools for transcription to improve your care, audio is deleted immediately. Your data remains fully encrypted and HIPAA-compliant at all times.
- EMDR:
- An evidence-based psychotherapy that enables people to heal from the symptoms and emotional distress that are the result of disturbing life experiences.
- CPT:
- A specific type of cognitive behavioral therapy that helps patients learn how to modify and challenge unhelpful beliefs related to trauma.